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Jun 15

As the years go by…

Posted on Monday, June 15, 2009 in Videos

As another NBA season comes to a close, here is a great video of NBA superstars through the years. I love this just as much now as it did when I originally saw it back in 1997. I don’t know what it is, but set just about anything to music and it becomes about 15x more emotional. I miss Larry and Magic and forgot how good Isaiah was. I love Clyde’s finger roll and Kareem’s sky hook. I love the winking, smiling, handshakes, hustle, upfakes, bankshots, crossovers, swishes, fist pumps, teamwork and passion.  I love it all.

And oh how the years go by
And oh how the love brings tears to my eyes
All through the changes the soul never dies
We fight, we laugh, we cry
As the years go by…

May 7

Celtic Pride

Posted on Thursday, May 7, 2009 in Stories

As we looked for our seats, we walked past a lot of pictures. There were the legends that I had never seen play – one of whom was a man I had just run into in the bathroom. I pointed him out to my Dad.

“It was a pleasure watching you play, Mr. White”, said my Dad.

“Thank you very much”, said Jo-Jo.

He looked refined. He was decked out in a black suit and had an elegance about him. He carried himself with a sense of dignity and class.

I think back to when I mailed away for Celtics stuff as a kid and received a bumper sticker that said, “Celtic Pride”.

“What does that mean?” I asked my Dad.

I can’t exactly remember his answer, but I think he said something about playing with heart and toughness and never quitting. If you take pride in something, you care. You care about your work. You give it all you have. And then, you keep giving.

I saw a picture of Reggie Lewis after he collapsed in the playoffs again Charlotte. The picture was in black and white. Black and white makes things look so old – like it never happened or was before my time. It wasn’t before my time, though. It was my time.

As a 14 year old kid, Reggie was my world. I loved Larry, but only caught the back end of his career. I was too young to remember the height of his glory days. But Reggie was an up and comer. I had seen his career progress. I loved the way he dunked. I liked his number. I loved his Reebok pump shoes.

Across from Reggie was a picture of Kevin McHale and Bill Walton. I remember waiting forever for Walton to return from his injury. When he finally did return, he wasn’t the same. Kevin was the guy with the long arms and great post moves. My Dad told me about how bigger he looked in person. He was 6’10”. I put Kevin in the “things I cannot fathom category” – kind of like the size of Dominique Wilkins shoes.

I remember listening to the games late at night on my walkman. I had dreams about being at the game cheering the team on. If I was there, I could cheer extra loud. If I cheered loud enough, maybe the team would feel inspired and play better. If the team played better, maybe I could play some kind of a role in helping them win.

Reggie Lewis

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I’ve always loved the Celtics. I found a friend in seminary who knew as much about the Celtics as I did. We fondly recalled the days of Marty Conlon and Brett Szabo and I often couldn’t help myself from breaking out into the Walker Wiggle. Pitino was kind of a let down, but there was that year when O’Brien led the squad to the Conference Finals. It was someone else to see them in the playoffs again. I hadn’t seen them playing this hard since going down swinging to Shaq and Penny in 1995.

It was early 2001 and the Miami Heat were off to a dreadful start. We didn’t care. They were in town to play the C’s and my buddy said we could get tickets by calling the players. He said that a friend of his in New York had done so and had been able to watch a Knicks game. The Miami Heat were in town and he started calling some hotels to see if he could track down the players. He tried a bunch of hotels until I told him to call the Ritz. They had to be staying there.

The first guy he got on the phone was LaPhonso Ellis. LaPhonso was also a Christian, and we tried to use that to our advantage. My buddy told him our situation – that we were a couple of broke seminarians who loved basketball and really wanted to see a game.

“You are Christians? Praise the Lord!” said LaPhonso. Still, he had family in town and didn’t have any tickets remaining.

After Chris Gatling didn’t work out and Alonzo Mourning wasn’t available, I reasoned that our best chance was to find a rookie that nobody had ever heard of. After all, these unknown guys don’t get any attention. Nobody – not even hardcore fans – have any clue who they are. As I read through Miami’s roster, one name stood out. It stood out because it didn’t stand out. The guy was a total no-namer. So, we gave Eddie House a call.

House

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There were little things that stood out to me tonight. There was KG clapping for the basketball players with Down Syndrome in the “Heroes Among Us” segment. I’m sure they look up to KG. What they may not realize is that KG was looking up to them.

There was an older lady on the jumbotron who couldn’t have been any more excited or happy to be on there. She must’ve been about 75 years old. Still, she was waving her arms like she was a 12 year-old girl.

I remember my Dad repeatedly saying how great it was to see so many people having so much fun. I think about myself, and times I found myself smiling tonight. I wasn’t just making my lips wider, but smiling. I was really smiling. I can’t remember the last time I smiled with my whole body like that.

I kept texting my buddy who happened to be one section over and about 15 rows down. Every once in awhile he would look back to make eye contact. “Are you seeing this?”, he seemed to be saying. “Yes”, I nod. I am taking it all in.

There is my Dad next to me, getting so excited after each 3-point shot that went in. Just like I can’t remember the last time I really smiled, I can’t remember the last time I saw him so into something. Sometimes the world is full of people desperately in need of some fun.

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I think about the song, “Young Turks” by Rod Stewart. One of the lyrics say “Young hearts be free tonight, time is on your side”. I think often about feeling old and wishing I were younger. Time is not on my side anymore. For me, time is quietly slipping away like air through a tire you didn‘t realize had a hole. Time is fading away for Jo-Jo. Time is fading away for my parents. Time already passed for Reggie Lewis and many of the people whose picture on the wall I couldn‘t even recognize.

As we walked back to our car, I saw something on the side of the road that said, “The Best Neighborhood this Side of Heaven”. I thought this was kind of an outrageous claim. Still, when I think back on the joy and excitement, I wonder if it is that far off.

It’s sort of like when they used to play the “Boom, Boom, Boom” song at Fenway Park. Someone had just hit a home run and the home team was rolling right along. Everyone danced. Strangers gave each other high-fives. You could forget your troubles for a little while. Things were going good and everything was going to be alright. It was a taste of what we were meant for and all know is missing.

And then there was the game itself. You can read about it in the newspaper or watch the highlights on TV. You can see that Rondo had 12 assists in the first half or Eddie’s postseason career-high 31 points. Just know that what you read isn’t the whole picture. Some things can’t be captured in a box score or 30-second highlight clip.

I’m glad that there are things that I still care about. The Celtics are one of those few things.

I can’t really tell you why I care about them so much, just as you can’t always explain why or how you fall in love. All I can tell you is that the pride means something to me. I think it also means something to Eddie House – who went from being a stranger to having his name chanted long after the game ended by fans shuffling down the stairs. Or, Brian Scalabrine who went from being the team mascot to, by playing his heart out, becoming a valued and respected member of the team.

The pride isn’t just about winning over the fans, it’s about believing in yourself when nobody else does. It’s about being able to look at yourself in the mirror when you shave in the morning. It’s also about playing your heart out and, if you must go down, going down swinging.

There is so much more that I could say, but it is late and I am very tired. I leave you with one last thought. The 75 year-old lady having the time of her life on the jumbotron taught me something about age and youth.

Young hearts were free tonight.

Rondo

Dec 15

The stuff that life is made of (Dallas – Part 4)

Posted on Monday, December 15, 2008 in Musings, Stories

It’s been about a month now in Dallas and the Christmas party was tonight. In one sense, it was just another gathering where everybody dressed up. I mean, there is the prom and then the college senior formal and then annual Christmas parties and weddings and other occasions to dress up and get together. It’s not like this was too much different. In another sense, it was more than a Christmas party. There was dancing and music and deep conversations and not so deep conversations. There were new friendships being formed and old friendships being solidified. There was joy and merriment and dancing. Yes, there was dancing.

It was just another party, but it wasn’t just another party. It was the celebration of life given by the giver of life in honor of the beginning of life for the maker of life. Getting ready, nervous anticipation, food, laughter, dancing, friendships – it’s the stuff that life is made of.  As a few songs put it, I will take the still frames in my mind and use them to paint myself a picture of this life.

I used to not think about pictures too often. I’m starting to love pictures because they keep memories alive. I want to write about memories because I don’t want to lose them. I don’t want to lose them, because if I do then I also lose a part of myself. I want to be able to look back and think, “that was night that I met so and so”, or “that was when we were still friends” or even “that was our night”.

There will also be sadness when I look back on these events. Some friendships will dissolve and eventually the group will dissolve. There will be a sense of loss that will let your heart break if you let it. And maybe it isn’t such a bad thing to let your heart break. Maybe pain can achieve something good. Maybe a broken heart can create tenderness and mercy and even hope. And what is the hope for? The hope is for what is felt in the dancing and the food and the stolen glance into another’s eyes. The taste is for what we all know is missing. The longing is for home.

I distinctly remember leaving the gym after each basketball game. A few hours earlier, there had been a large crowd and a battle being fought and sweat and even some tears. There was flirting going on in the stands and the pep band dancin’ and playin’ and popcorn and laffy taffy being served in the cafeteria at halftime. There was the big bright scoreboard and the “Redskins on the Warpath” painting with the chief on the wall. There was the taste of love and time I stumbled across the girl of my dreams making out with someone in the hallway. There was glory to be had and hard work and dreams being crushed. There was also togetherness and camaraderie and things so beautiful and so horrible that it would break your heart if you let it. And that’s not a bad thing.

As I shuffled out of the gym after each game, I took one last look at the gym. This time, it was empty. I remember it like I remember the house we used to live in and the last episode of Growing Pains where they all looked at the living room one last time before closing the door. It was always a strange feeling that something so full of life a few hours earlier could be so empty that it’s almost like nothing took place. But the walls knew what happened, just like the rafters know along with old man river. And I know what happened. I know what happened because I witnessed it. Not only did I witness it, but I was a part of it. Not only was I part of it, but I can still go there now. In my mind it is fresh as ever. I can still smell the popcorn in my mind and even if I didn’t run off with the cheerleader, there was something there. Something that meant something to me and maybe even to her. Something that touched me and pointed to more. Something that even as our pinkie fingers let go of at that dance, I still hold on to and cherish.

I found myself wishing others a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year tonight and really meaning it, too. I wanted to wish them more. I wanted to wish them a Happy Birthday and a Happy Heart and a Happy Life. I was asking how they were doing and I really cared to know the answer. I wanted to tell them that I love them and that God loves them and to be able to fill up the empty spaces inside their hearts or at least make those spaces feel less empty.

It was a hard year for me. It’s hard to explain why, but you’ll just have to trust me. There is one line of a Rich Mullins song that has comforted me the whole time: “I don’t know where you’re leading me, unless you’ve led me here, to where I’m lost enough to let myself be led”. If you had told me a year or so ago that I would be living in Dallas and searching for a job at this time of year, I probably would have laughed in your face. But, for some reason, God has brought me here and He is leading me. Because of Him I am strong even though I am weak and have great wealth even though I am poor. Yes, it has been another long December. And yet, there is reason to believe that maybe next year will be better than the last.

The feelings may not last for long, but I will keep them alive by remembering them in my heart. To Katie, Dave, sweet girl from Louisiana, Darren, Brittany, supermodel young adults pastor, Laura, Isaac, Julie, Jeff, beautiful s’more girl who told me I am funny and everybody else – thank you. Thank you for enriching my life. Thank you for showing love to a stranger and for welcoming a wanderer. Whatever you did for the least of these (me), you did for Christ.

They say that love can heal the broken. They say that hope can make you see. I see you all as precious gifts from the giver of all good things. Come, let us adore Him together.

Aug 17

Bananas

Posted on Sunday, August 17, 1997 in Quotes

Time flies like an arrow; fruit flies like a banana.

-Groucho Marx

Aug 17

Time

Posted on Sunday, August 17, 1997 in Quotes

Time is fun when you’re having flies.

- Kermit the Frog

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